Friday, August 29, 2008

Thank you Auntyjeez...

Well yess….many thanks and regards to my dearo “aunty jees” who are providing their endless opinions and comments about me…my relationship status…and all other things…I think Ma has been hanging around too much with aunties of the colony, throwing in words of wisdom on ‘Shaadi’ to my mom.



On a serious note, it’s not that I’m a commitmentphobic to an extent where the idea of a future wedlock sounds highly peculiar but the point is that..reality dawns and lust fades..Sooner or later. And to think of a co-existence with someone who can’t stand the REAL me and vice versa, is a nightmare!!


Picture the excerpts:

1. A girl’s marital value is at peak in her 20’s.(Confusion..confusion..are we referring to girls or shares in the stock market?)

2 My Dad’s-Uncle’s-Cousin brother’s-Wife’s-Sister’s-Eldest daughter suggest (Hun..rishta te samjha dyo)

3. (And beat this) Kudi nu bol..focus her ‘social radar’ and catch the signals soon (Keda signal..aunty jiiii ?)

While Papa maintains a silence, Ma invariably gets wild, not because she’s genuinely worried about it but because a hoard of other anonymous well wishers are!!

Marrying is not for the better or for the worse but for the good. It’s not in I, Me and Myself, but in We and Us. The million dollar question is not how compatible you are, but how do you get over with your share of incompatibilities.

Ma, the day I find someone who accepts me for what I’m and I feel proud of what he is, that one special person whom I can annoy for the rest of my life, and who says “I love to laugh with you”, someone whom I can love more than myself and as much as my family, I will marry him, simple as that.

Till that time…please start making perfect use of your time…'thoda Bhajan Keertan mein’….mainu baksh deo..!!

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

what happened to the other one?

Isha said...

other one..?who

Unknown said...

diiiiii..wat a piece of thoughts... ekdum leg peice ki taarah..last paragraph is like aahhhh.... so v true.... kuddoss to u ...

Isha said...

thanks puchkaa..:-))

Ravx said...

Good Start... Keep it up and remember the diff. btween THOUGHTS and FEELINGS !!!

Isha said...

Thank you for your feedback...wud make it sure that my posts does not conflict between Thoughts and Feelings..